A Mom’s Story: The Wake-Up Call

Sarah always dreamed of giving her children the best life possible. She wanted them to have everything she didn’t have growing up; nice clothes, fun experiences, and the latest toys. She worked hard to provide for them, but over time, she started noticing an unsettling trend.

She realized that no matter how much she gave, it was never enough. Instead of gratitude, she saw an attitude of expectation. That moment became a turning point for Sarah. She realized that raising godly kids wasn’t about giving them more stuff: it was about giving them more of Jesus.

Sarah and her husband started making changes. They introduced family devotions, reduced unnecessary purchases, and encouraged their kids to serve others. Over time, they saw a difference. Their children became more appreciative, more giving, and more content.

This transformation didn’t happen overnight, but with intentional parenting and a focus on biblical values, their home became a place of gratitude instead of entitlement.

Why Is Entitlement a Problem?

Have you ever caught yourself saying, "Kids these days just don’t appreciate what they have!"? If so, you’re not alone. Many parents feel frustrated by the entitlement they see in their children; constant demands, lack of gratitude, and an expectation of instant rewards. 

But here’s the good news: We don’t have to give in to the culture of entitlement. As Christian parents, we are called to raise children who are grateful, hardworking, and content in Christ. It won’t happen instantly, but with biblical wisdom and intentional parenting, we can help shape their hearts for the better.

 Here are some key reasons why entitlement is becoming a widespread issue:

• Instant Gratification Culture : Kids are used to getting what they want, when they want it (fast food, instant downloads, one-click purchases).
  
  

• Lack of Responsibility : Many children don’t experience real work or contribution to the family unit.
  
  

• Overindulgence from Parents : Out of love, many parents try to give their kids everything they never had, unintentionally fueling entitlement.
  
  

• Comparison & Social Media Influence : Kids see others with the latest trends and feel they "deserve" the same.

• Avoidance of Discomfort : Some parents shield their kids from failure or challenges, making them expect an easy life. However, struggles and hard work build character.

What Does the Bible Say About Entitlement?

As Christian parents, our goal is not just to raise well-behaved kids but to raise disciples of Christ. God’s Word provides clear direction on raising children who are humble, grateful, and diligent:

📖 Philippians 2:14-15 – “Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.”

📖 Proverbs 13:4 – “The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied.”

📖 1 Timothy 6:6 – “But godliness with contentment is great gain.”

📖 Luke 6:38 – “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap.”

📖 Philippians 2:3-4 – “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.”

📖 Colossians 3:23 – “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.”

📖 1 Thessalonians 5:18 – “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

As parents, we must teach our kids that true fulfillment comes from God, not material possessions or easy living.

Practical Ways to Raise Godly Kids in an Entitled World

Here are six powerful ways to shift your child’s mindset from entitlement to godliness: grateful and grounded in Christ.

1. Instill the Value of Hard Work

• Give your children age-appropriate chores and responsibilities to teach accountability.

• Let them earn rewards rather than receiving everything freely.

• Encourage them to do their best in all they do, as unto the Lord (Colossians 3:23).
  
  

2. Cultivate a Heart of Gratitude

• Start a family gratitude journal where everyone writes what they’re thankful for daily.

• Teach kids to express appreciation by saying “thank you” and acknowledging blessings, big or small.

• Lead by example: show gratitude to God and others in your daily life.

• Remind them that every good gift comes from God (James 1:17).
  
  

3. Set Clear Boundaries & Stay Consistent

• Don’t be afraid to say "no" without guilt: kids need to learn they won’t always get what they want.

• Be consistent in enforcing boundaries, avoiding rewards for whining or manipulation.

• Limit material excess: too much abundance can reduce appreciation.

• Teach the difference between needs and wants (Matthew 6:31-33).
  
  

4. Encourage Generosity & Serving Others

• Volunteer as a family at church, shelters, or local service projects.

• Teach children to give to others rather than always expecting to receive.

• Show them that true joy comes from serving, just as Jesus demonstrated (Acts 20:35).
  
  

5. Reduce Materialism & Comparison

• Prioritize experiences over possessions; family game nights, outdoor adventures, and acts of service.

• Remind them that joy doesn’t come from things but from a content heart.

• Limit social media exposure and materialistic influences: teach contentment and godly identity.

• Help them understand that their worth is found in Christ, not in what they own.
  
  

6. Build a Strong Spiritual Foundation

• Encourage your children to memorize Scripture and apply it in daily life.

• Read the Bible together and teach values like humility and contentment.

• Pray with your children, asking God to develop a grateful and humble heart in them.

• Foster daily devotionals and journaling to nurture spiritual growth.

• Remind them that Jesus came to serve, not to be served (Mark 10:45).
  
  

You Can Do This!

Changing an entitled mindset takes time, but it’s possible with God’s help. Parenting is a journey, and every small effort you make today will shape your child’s heart for years to come.

Raising godly kids in a world of entitlement is not easy, but it’s possible with intentional effort and God’s help. As moms, we are called to train our children in the way they should go (Proverbs 22:6), and that includes teaching them gratitude, humility, and a strong work ethic.

Let’s raise a generation of children who love Jesus, appreciate what they have, and live to serve others.

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